All the cliches are true, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, The Yin The Yang, The Light the Dark, The Shakti, the Shiva. The rub is, that most women want intimacy in every way, physical and emotional. Men want SEX. Women need love, Men want love. It's different. For example, we start seeing someone and make the 21st Century mistake of having sex with them too soon. Not in their eyes of course, but for the woman, yes. Because we form emotional attachments more quickly than men do. We decide in the first five minutes, if we are going to bed them down. Men will bed anything down, as long as it is breathing, ever heard the phrase Coyote Ugly? The rub is, with that physical intimacy for the woman comes emotion. No matter how loudly we proclaim...I can have sex for fun, I don't need to be attached...that just doesnt work. It's for real and like it or not, we bond when we have sex. Like gorilla glue. They on the other hand say, "I'll call you" or more up to date "I'll text you" And in boy time, that could mean anything. And the woman, most likely even if she is a strong, independent person with love for herself and her own identity, blah, blah, blah... still will neurotically wait for her phone to vibrate. And when it doesn't, the fear manifests itself in a sickening pattern of phone calls, voice mails and texts to her best girlfriend...will he call?, when is he going to text? Because we have discussed every intimate detail of said sexual encounter with her. EVERY DETAIL (yes guys, its true) Meanwhile the man has not thought two seconds about anything, except maybe the possibility that he might get his d*** wet again and that doesn't necessarily mean with you. He's onto football, his next golf game, work. Your sexual encounter is but a German U-Boat that has fallen off the radar. Thus begin the WAR GAMES...
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